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Issue 247 - February 9, 2006

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Are You Aware? by Ellie Drake

"Awareness Precedes Action."

Common Pitfalls to be Aware of in Business:

Here are some possible resistances along the way, not necessarily for us to avoid and resist, but most importantly to be aware of and know that they are there. Even the most dedicated traveler on this journey, will come across pitfalls.

First pitfall: Obsessive goal orientation -
Although it is great to set ambitious goals, the best way to reaching them is to cultivate modest expectations along the way, and most importantly to celebrate every small achievement. Remember every step in this journey is it's own destination. As an example, when we are climbing a mountain, we must be aware of where the peak is, however if we keep looking at the peak, we might become overwhelmed and enter the state of judgment and analysis. This by the way, will cause a reverse effect, sometimes making us go backwards. Let's make sure that we keep our eyes on the path, enjoying every step in this process, understanding that the peak is only a land mark. By the way, we must also realize that the peak is only a step in the journey from which we choose the next peak. Life is full of peaks for a person who wants to live their potential as a human being. Therefore, we might as well enjoy the process of getting to each of them.

Next pitfall: No goal setting -
Sometimes as human beings, we tend to refuse to set goals merely because we are carrying the burden of having set them in the past, but not having accomplished them. We must realize that if we do not accomplish a goal, it's only because we are human. But as long as we learn from it, and keep on setting healthy step by step goals, we will end up accomplishing a majority of them in the long run. Those who have succeeded, have also failed. The only difference is that they succeeded more than they failed. Therefore, setting healthy goals along the way can sharpen and empower us. Persistent healthy goal setting will end up being persistent goal getting!

Next pitfall: Little competitiveness -
A healthy level of competition is essential in business. It provides some spice. It sometimes brings about that extra level of willingness. It is true that the most important competition should be to compete with ourselves. However, it is important for us not to resist competition especially if we resist it because of not wanting to be disappointed. This is perhaps another subconscious pattern. So let's welcome a healthy level of competition understanding that we can be on the right track, but if we don't move, we might get run over.

Next pitfall: Over competitiveness -
Competition can provide the spice. However, when the spice becomes the biggest ingredient in the meal, then the player will get sick. A person who thinks about nothing but winning, will end up losing. The focus should be on one's purpose, and also enjoying the process. A healthy level of competition is good. An obsession with winning and competing will take us out of the flow. After all, we know by now that the Ego is never in the flow.

Next pitfall: Inconsistency -
Consistency is the only way to grow. Inconsistency takes energy and time. Being consistent, even on a part time basis, is much more powerful than coming in and out of this flow. Remember the example of the Rabbit and the Turtle? Sometimes in business, it is better to have a turtle mind set, than that of a Rabbit. I remember to create in my business, I had a rabbit-turtle combo. That means have the mind set of a turtle, with the motor skills of a rabbit. But that is perhaps another Article. One step at a time! Starting with consistent steps.

Next pitfall: Perfectionism -
For me, being a perfectionist brings about an instant self criticism component. I am glad to say that I have learned to be good to myself. Therefore, I have realized that to let go of perfectionism, means to get out of the way, and perform to the best of my ability in the moment. This also brings in an understanding that the next level will be more effective, and more efficient than this level. However, the next level will not occur, unless the current level is experienced fully without judgment and attachment. It's to believe that we can not merely wait till we are good. We must first do, and then we will be good. I have truly learned that perfectionism is one of the biggest blocks to creativity. I have also learned when I am creative, I accomplish more. When I accomplish more, I feel good. But to be creative, I now know that I must first feel good. So in this equation, the enzymes that catalyze the reaction are feeling good and being creative. This equals accomplishment. Perfectionism is the stop sign. It is the resistance in the way. Once again, I want to take the road of least resistance. So in the world of creativity, flow, and accomplishment, perfectionism is not an enzyme. It is a fungus! That should give you a nice mental picture! Ok. Moving right along!

Next pitfall: Plateaus -
In business, we so often resist plateaus. We feel that if we experience a plateau, then that means that something is not quite right out there with our business or our company. Although that sometimes can be true, but this definition can end up being one that exhausts and drains us. I have learned in my business to not resist the plateaus, but rather have them be an indication of perhaps an internal modification that might be required. That means that during a plateau, we could look inside and improve or change something that could allow us to grow. One step toward internal growth can sometimes end up being hundreds of steps toward external growth. Therefore, one will realize that a plateau can now be embraced rather than resisted. Building a business is so much more fun as well when a thing such as a plateau is looked at differently.



This article is by Ellie Drake. Ellie and her family immigrated to America 14 years ago with very little resources. She then began the process of attracting according to her purpose in life. With an effervescent smile and personality, her message is inspiring and her "life lessons" are full of great insights. She truly understands and operates fully utilizing the gift of Connecting and Attracting. This week, Ellie gave us permission to offer her 4 best-selling programs (individually or as a group) at substantially lower prices than she offers on her website or events. For more information or to order The Art of Attracting Volume 1, The Art of Attracting Volume 2, The Art of Connecting and Your Brave Heart individually or as a package, scroll down to #4 below or visit http://elliedrake.yoursuccessstore.com or call 877-929-0439.

 

"Live each day as if your last, not in the future, not in the past. You may not get what you want, but, in the long run, you will get what you expect." Denis Waitley

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2. Your Achievement Quotes

OVERCOMING FAILURE

"Excuses are the language of the failure, and the melody of the mediocre…" -- Doug Firebaugh

"The patient person accepts a certain amount of failure knowing that it is as important a thread in the fabric of life as is success. Great individuals make great successes out of failure." -- Denis Waitley

"It doesn't matter how much milk you spill as long as you don't lose the cow." -- Harvey Mackay

"Failure is only the opportunity to begin again more intelligently." -- Henry Ford
 

OVERCOMING FEAR

"Don't be afraid to take a big step if one is indicated; you can't cross a chasm in two small jumps." -- David Lloyd George

"Do you know more about the things you Fear than the things you desire?" -- Rick Beneteau

"Refuse to let the fear of rejection hold you back. Remember, rejection is never personal." -- Brian Tracy

"Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood." -- Madame Marie Curie
 

OVERCOMING OBSTACLES

"I am always doing things I can't do, that's how I get to do them." -- Pablo Picasso

"Divide each difficulty into as many parts as necessary to resolve it." -- Rene Descartes

"Obstacles cannot crush me. Every obstacle yields to stern resolve. He who is fixed to a star does not change his mind." -- Leonardo da Vinci

"You can surmount the obstacles in your path if you are determined, courageous and hard-working. Never be faint-hearted. Be resolute, but never bitter." -- Ralph J. Bunche
 

"The problem is not that there are problems. The problem is expecting otherwise and thinking that having problems is a problem."  Theodore Rubin

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"The real winners in life are the people who look at every situation with an expectation that they can make it work or make it better."  Barbara Pletcher

3. Your Achievement Tips -

Make Your Mark by Plussing Your Unique Talents by Mark Victor Hansen

Everyone has unique talents that make us stand out from the crowd. Some people possess the ability to sing - but no one does it in the exact same way. Others are brilliant painters - but each has his or her own flair with the brush that allows them to create individual masterpieces. There are plenty of motivational speakers out there, but each has their own philosophy on how to help others achieve their goals.

Whatever your talent is, you should craft it, nourish it and build on it. It is the "niche talent" that will take you to the top of your field.

Doing what we were meant to do creates fun, excitement and contentment in our lives, and invariably, in the lives of the people around us. When you're excited about something it's contagious. You may already be following the path you were meant to walk on and that's fantastic! Not everyone acts on doing what they know they were meant to do.

Sometimes, even if you know it's the "path," you're supposed to travel, it can start to lose its shine... here's an idea for you:

Tony Bennett. A few years back he was singing his fabulous standards in Las Vegas to older crowds. His son, also his manager, had the notion to put his dad on MTV. Tony agreed, if a bit skeptically. Neither had a clue what was to follow.

That one innovative idea exploded into a renewed career! He became the hottest talent on MTV and VH-1. His tapes and CDs sold like hotcakes and his music once again topped the charts. His concerts were sold out, drawing grandmothers and grandfathers who were accompanied by their grandkids, converted Bennett fans.

Bennett and his son plussed Tony's career by simply exposing his talents to a new generation. All it took was one idea. You can do this too. By plussing your talents you can create or recreate a career you didn't know was possible.

'It doesn't matter what is happening in the economy, government or your industry. It matters what is going on in your imagination. If you've got a rich imagination you're going to have a rich experience.'

Mark Victor Hansen



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"Let us be about setting high standards for life, love, creativity, and wisdom. If our expectations in these areas are low, we are not likely to experience wellness. Setting high standards makes every day and every decade worth looking forward to." Greg Anderson

4. Release Your Fears, Re-kindle Your Purpose and Embrace the Challenges in Your Life!  

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