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Welcome to Your Achievement Ezine
Issue 286 - November 16, 2006

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"It is inevitable that some defeat will enter even the most victorious life. The human spirit is never finished when it is defeated - it is finished when it surrenders."  Ben Stein


Today's issue includes:

1. Your Achievement Article - Curing the Resentment Flu - Learning to Let Go... by John Gray
2. Your Achievement Quotes - Integrity/Honesty, Involvement and Just Do It!
3. Your Achievement Tips - Acting on Your Dream by Les Brown
4. Covey, Gray, Peters, Rohn, Brown, Mackay and More!
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1.  Your Achievement Article

Curing the Resentment Flu - Learning to Let Go... by John Gray

When we love someone, we don't want to let them down. We try very hard to be the person and do the things that will make them happy. At some point, we become more relaxed in the company of our beloved. Maybe too relaxed for our own good. When a woman is happy in a relationship she typically begins to give and do more, believing that her partner will reciprocate. When he unknowingly doesn't live up to her expectations, resentment begins to build. She doesn't want to rock the boat, so she remains quiet - for now...

What is the Resentment Flu?

Resentment is caused when we feel like we are giving more than we are getting. It starts when our partner somehow, and quite possibly by accident, does or says something that we take personally. We begin to imagine that our partner doesn't care. It goes unresolved and burrows and festers. It can even cause us to become physically ill.

Resentment is caused when we feel like we are giving more than we are getting. How do we cure these feelings and return to our relationship with the loving, caring feelings we know are there?

The solution for women is to:

  • Take responsibility for giving more and getting less. Remember the best way to even the score is to gracefully give less.

  • Treat yourself as if you have the flu and take a break from giving so much. Just like when you don't feel well, slow down and take care of yourself physically.

  • Pamper yourself. Allow yourself to be pampered and give yourself some alone time, just for you. Practice receiving. Allow your partner to take care of you for a while.

    When a man catches the resentment flu, he typically feels unappreciated and pulls away his support. It is important for him to remember that when his partner has the resentment flu, it is harder for her to show her support and appreciation for him. It is crucial at this time for a man to do the little things he was doing in the beginning of their relationship which made her feel loved.

    The solution for men is to:

  • Understand her need to receive for a while before she can give again. Just like a gas tank, a woman's love tank needs regular refilling. When she is empty, it is hard for her to keep giving.

  • Show his love and affection for her in loving, little ways. Redirect the energy and attention you are already giving in more romantic, less practical ways.

  • Take responsibility for contributing to her getting the resentment flu by forgetting to do the little things. Acknowledge and allow her to have her upset feelings. Reassure her that you will be more considerate.

    It is very easy to get caught up in the business of our day. We sometimes forget to stop and appreciate our partner and remember how they enrich our lives. Loving our partner without resentment is a gift we give to ourselves and each other.



    John Gray is the author of 15 best-selling books, including Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus; the number one best-selling relationship book of the last decade. In the past ten years, over 30 million Mars and Venus books have been sold in over 40 languages throughout the world. An expert in the field of communication, John Gray's focus is to help men and women understand, respect and appreciate their differences in both personal and professional relationships. This article Copyright 2006 All Rights Reserved.

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    "Be of good cheer. Do not think of today's failures, but of the success that may come tomorrow. You have set yourselves a difficult task, but you will succeed if you persevere; and you will find a joy in overcoming obstacles." Helen Keller


     

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    2. Your Achievement Quotes

    INTEGRITY/HONESTY

    "Integrity is non-situational; you're the same person 24 hours a day, 7 days a week." -- Denis Waitley

    "You always give one of two reasons for doing anything -- the reason that sounds good, or the real reason." -- Brian Tracy

    "The most important persuasion tool you have in your entire arsenal is integrity." -- Zig Ziglar

    "A "NO" uttered from deepest conviction is better and greater than a "YES" merely uttered to please, or what is worse, to avoid trouble." -- Mahatma Gandhi
     

    INVOLVEMENT

    "The question of success is not will it?... Or even will there be... Or even will it ever?... The question is... Will you?" -- Doug Firebaugh

    "We must dare and dare again, and go on daring." -- Georges Jacques Danton

    "He has the right to criticize who has the heart to help." -- Abraham Lincoln

    "A voice is a human gift; it should be cherished and used, to utter fully human speech as possible. Powerlessness and silence go together." -- Margaret Atwood
     

    JUST DO IT!

    "A great deal of talent is lost in the world for want of a little courage…The fact is that to do anything in the world worth doing, we must not stand back shivering and thinking of the cold and danger, but jump in and scramble through as well as we can." -- Sydney Smith

    "Each of us must do massive right thinking, take massive right action and get massive right results, right here, right now." -- Mark Victor Hansen

    "... if we wait for the moment when everything, absolutely everything is ready, we shall never begin." -- Ivan Turgenev

    "The truth of the matter is that you always know the right thing to do. The hard part is doing it." -- Norman Schwarzkopf
     


    "Adversity causes some people to break, others to break records."  Denis Waitley


     

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    "If I were asked to give what I consider the single most useful bit of advice for all humanity, it would be this: Expect trouble as an inevitable part of life, and when it comes, hold your head high. Look it squarely in the eye, and say, 'I will be bigger than you. You cannot defeat me.'"  Ann Landers


     

    3. Your Achievement Tips -

    Acting On Your Dream by Les Brown

    I have not often admitted this, but I was inspired to become a public speaker by perhaps the worst motivational speaker I've ever heard in my life.

    This fellow is still working, surprisingly, so I won't give his name. He was the opening speaker in a seminar I attended early in my speaking career and he nearly closed the show early with his monotone, unenthusiastic presentation. As he spoke, the room grew as quiet as a graveyard between funerals.

    I went to sleep to be awakened by what could only be called courtesy applause for his presentation. You could make more noise clapping with one hand. After the less-than-stirring speech, I leaned over to the guy sitting next to me and said, "That was really boring." And he said, "You should be so boring for the kind of money he makes." The fellow told me this terrible speaker was making $5,000 for each terrible speech.

    After hearing how much money a really bad speaker could make, I decided it was time for me to go after this dream. A few days later, I caught a Greyhound bus from Miami to Orlando where I'd signed up for a seminar for beginners held by the National Speakers Association. It seemed like the bus ride took weeks. I know it took every last dollar I could scrape together. And so I was road-weary but eager to hear some inspiring, motivational, and dynamic speaking when I finally took a seat at the event. But who should walk out to lead the first session but that same terrible $5,000-per-speech speaker? I could not believe it!

    All that time on a stinking bus, stopping in every one-horse town between Miami and Orlando, to hear this guy again? I nearly got up and walked out. By the time he'd gotten halfway through his speech, nearly half the audience had fled. But I stayed on until the bitter end and the speaker's parting shot, as it turned out, was worth the price of admission. He obviously had noted the exodus of the audience and the drooping eyelids of those who remained because, as he built up to his anticlimax, he stopped suddenly, looked out at the remaining numbers of aspiring public speakers and said, "You know, the only reason that I am standing up here and you are sitting down there is that I represent the thoughts that you have rejected for yourself."

    I don't know about the other dozen or so people in the audience, but Mr. Monotone hit me right between the eyes with that shot. It was true. He had acted upon something that I had only dreamt of doing. I'd spent years dreaming of becoming a public speaker. But dreaming was all I had done. This guy may not have had any talent for it. He may have been the most undynamic public speaker in history. But he was up there while I was still dreaming. And so that is how I became motivated to start a new career by perhaps the worst motivational speaker I have ever heard.


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